Thursday, July 31, 2014

Myles turns 6!

Happy birthday, Myles-Man! You are 6! In some ways it feels like time is zipping by, but at the same time it's hard for me to remember what life was like before you... who I was before you, the one who made me a momma. You have come so far from your first days as a tiny 5 pound baby boy in the NICU, and although the day to day progress can feel slow, we are immensely proud of how hard you've worked to be who you are today.

You have so many amazing qualities about you. You are compassionate, loving, friendly, persistent,  independent, smart, and much more. It's hard to articulate what it's like to be your mom. The most important thing is that you are such a joy and we wouldn't trade you for the world. But from you I am also learning that I can simultaneously be joy filled, and overwhelmed, and frustrated, and feel completely inadequate. There are so, so many things I wish I could make easier for you in this world that is not always forgiving to those that learn differently, those that experience life differently than most. 



But you, Myles, you love your life. Despite your challenges, despite having to work so hard for what comes so easily to others, you wake up every morning (very early!) with a smile on your face and ready to tackle another day. You're not always happy, as is often the (mistaken) stereotype of those with Down syndrome, but in your being, you are tender and loving. You love it most when our whole family is together, and you adore your siblings. 


We hope you have a fabulous birthday, you deserve it. Thank you for being an amazing part of our family! We are all better because of you.


Monday, July 28, 2014

Family Weekend!

This past weekend we had no commitments for the first weekend since Myles got out of school, and managed to fill it with some great family time!

Rapids Game
Friday night we went to the Colorado Rapids (soccer) game. I had been to one game before, but it was a first for the rest of the family. I wasn't sure how the kids would do, but they were actually pretty good and had a great time.

Myles' "funny face."




 We ran into one of Gilby's former youth group students who now works at the Rapids stadium selling concessions. He gave Sydney a cotton candy and she was in heaven!

Touch-A-Truck
Saturday morning we went to the Touch-A-Truck event just 10 minutes from our house. There were tons of different types of vehicles - garbage truck, dump truck, milk truck, bus, helicopter, monster truck, fire truck, ambulance, semi truck, horse trailor, and more! Ryker is our truck boy and he loved being so close to all of the big trucks.






Lair o' the Bear
After seeing the trucks, we drove out to Morrison to go hiking at Lair o' the Bear. Now that the kids are getting "older" (does nearly 6, 4, and going on 2 count as older?), I finally feel like we can start doing more stuff like this. It definitely requires a lot of energy from Gilby and I, and doesn't come without frustrations, but when I look at the photos of our kids' (and our) smiling faces, the good outweighs the tough moments.



A castle along our hiking route.


All wet from the rain!

 Ice cream stop on the way home!

Broncos Practice
After church on Sunday, we went to Mile High stadium to watch the Broncos first open practice. We stayed for a bit over an hour before the kids had had enough, but it was fun to expose them to the stadium and we all had a good time!

It was nice of Tinkerbell to join us for the game. This is where I again mention that our kids pick out their own clothes!




All in all, a great weekend. I love our little family!

Tinkerbell

Tinkerbell spent one morning just picking some flowers...


Thursday, July 24, 2014

Sydney's BirthDAY!

When I realized that Sydney's birthday fell on a Monday this year, I was a bit bummed as that is one of our busiest days of the week, but we still managed to make it special. I had one present ready for her to open when she woke up - a new dress. Sydney loves to wear dresses, and if a dress isn't available, she will wear a skirt, but never shorts or pants and definitely not jeans, those have been a no-go for a couple of years now! I thought she could wear her new dress to preschool, but of course in typical Sydney fashion she was excited about the dress, thanked us for the dress, but when I asked if she wanted to wear the dress to school, she simply said, "no thank you."

When she found out she had a present to open, she immediately turned to Myles and said, "Myles, do you want to help me open this?" Proud mama moment.

It was a swimming day at preschool, so Sydney was able to swim with her friends for a couple of hours in the morning. Gilby then brought lunch to school and ate with her in her class. He said she loved it and I'm sure she felt so special.


That evening Grandma and Grandpa came over for homemade pizza, presents, and cake. Sydney got lots of fun gifts including the Hello Kitty nail polish she's been asking for since Valentine's Day!




 Ryker loves horses!

Since Grandma and Grandpa are going to be out of town for Myles' birthday, he got to open his presents too. And of course they brought something special for Ryker too!


 Myles insisted on having a picture with Gilby and I after seeing Sydney do it.

Sydney had a very specific request for her cake this year - a cherry cookie cake with rainbows, butterflies and flowers on top. We weren't sure what exactly she had in mind, but I found a recipe for a cherry butter cookie, which Gilby made in two circle cake pans (so yummy!). My mom graciously decorated it (with Myles' help), and it turned out super cute!




It was a great day celebrating our girl, and since I heard her declare, "This is the best birthday ever!" I think she felt the same.

Family Road Trip

We have been home from our big summer road trip for two and a half weeks, and I am finally getting this blogpost finished up! We had such a great vacation and I wanted to have it well documented for future memories!

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Ten days, nine nights, 2200+ miles, 35+ hours driving, visits with lots of dear family and friends, and many fun family memories made for a really great summer road trip...

Friday, June 27: We left home at 4AM and only made three quick stops with our road warriors in order to make it to my grandparent's place by dinner. The kids did really well overall during this first long leg of our trip. Ryker did spend a good portion of the time yelling, "No, no, no!" and "I stuck!" (in his car seat), and "Out peas!" (please). Myles learned how to clip out of his car seat during this portion of the trip, which would be a really great step toward being even more independent, except that he spent a lot of the time un-clipping himself while we were driving down the interstate. Typical Myles! 

It was so great when we finally arrived! My grandparents moved into an apartment at The Western Home in January, so this was our first visit to their new place. We had a great dinner in the dining room with my grandparents and Uncle David before exploring the property and letting the kids run off some steam.



Saturday, June 28: The weekend we were in CF happened to be the same weekend as Sturgis Falls, the big summer festival. I have fond memories from Sturgis, but haven't been since high school! We met my grandparents and Uncle David for the parade and afterward headed to Overman Park for some live music, strawberry slushies and mini donuts. Mission accomplished, those were pretty much my favorite things from Sturgis growing up and I'm happy to have shared them with my kiddos. 


The parade. - Ryker falling asleep in the backpack. - Strawberry slushy and JR mini donuts! 

Although it wasn't a particularly hot day, we were still all hot and tired from the muggy weather (gotta love the midwest!), and headed back to our hotel to go swimming. Again, my grandparents and Uncle David met us to watch the kiddos swim before they had to go for the night. My grandpa was getting an award from the Waterloo Lions Club that evening for being the longest standing member. I love my grandparents so much and am so, so proud of all of their community contributions, which are still going strong! They are amazing!

 Right before Ryker fell on the tile and hit his cheek on the way into the hot tub. Poor buddy. It's amazing we all made it back in one piece with the number of "owies" the kids got. According to Sydney, she had "hundreds of owies."




It started to pour rain at dinnertime, so our plans of grabbing a pizza and heading to a park weren't going to happen. Instead, we decided to take our three tired kiddos to the Hy-Vee Deli. Gilby and I were already a bit tired too after only one day of vacation, and as we watched our kids run around like crazy at the deserted deli, and faced another week plus on the road, we found some comic relief in this fortune he pulled out of his fortune cookie.


Sunday, June 29: We left bright and early Sunday morning to meet our former nanny, Anne Marie, at the Oschner Zoo in Baraboo, WI. Although Anne Marie was only with us for a few months last fall before she had to unexpectedly move back to Madison, she made a lasting impression on our family and we miss her! The small zoo and park next to it were perfect for our little kids. We spent a couple of hours catching up with Anne Marie before moving on to our next stop.






 One of many attempts at a group photo!

Next, we drove 30 minutes north to visit my best friend from high school, Christina, and her family at their lake place. Christina is the kind of friend that might only come along once in a lifetime and I cherish our relationship. Although we still talk weekly, it had been 3 years since the last time we had seen each other in person. We spent the afternoon boating, watching the kids play in the sand, tubing, and eating outside on the lakefront. It was an amazing visit and way too short!


 Logan, Ryker, Harper

Ryan was sweet to let all of the kids drive the boat. - Ryker tubing wtih Gilby and Logan!






Monday, June 30: We had checked into our hotel, Great Wolf Lodge, the night before, and spent the better part of Monday playing at their amazing water park. Great Wolf Lodge is a hotel/water park resort and super family-friendly. We LOVED our time there and could have easily spent another day or two enjoying all of the different areas of the water park. 



Monday evening we went to the Berg's house in Reedsburg for dinner with them and the Jantz family. Gilby worked with Ben Berg and Zack and Amy Jantz during his time at Okoboji. The connections he still has with so many friends from Okoboji is really neat and we had lots of fun getting to know each other's kids. Between the three families, we now have 10 kids age 6 and under! It was a full house and the Bergs were so gracious to let us destroy it!



 Ben, Gilby, Amy, Zach

Tuesday, July 1: Tuesday morning we treated ourselves to the breakfast buffet at our hotel, which was yummy, and would have been a lot more fun had Ryker not been a crazy man! Everyone at the restaurant thought he was so cute, other than Gilby and I! Ryker can be the most independent one-year-old ever and decided that morning that he needed to get his own food, carry his own food ("I carry it!"), and dance in the aisles. We had a hard time containing him. Silly boy. 

We spent the rest of the morning playing at the water park again. I was really proud of how the kids did at the hotel. Before going, I was a bit concerned about keeping the kiddos safe at the water park with just Gilby and I. That might sound silly to other families that have three little kids as it shouldn't be that hard, but Myles can be so unpredictable at times that safety is a concern of mine pretty much anywhere we go. But, he did awesome. He listened really well, cooperated, made safe choices, and he and Sydney watched out for each other amazingly well. Myles was of course not fearful of anything, but Sydney on the other hand didn't want to go down the littlest slide at first, but very quickly was trying everything Myles was. "Mountain Edge Raceway" ended up being the favorite slide for both of them, so we went over and over. 




 The Mountain Edge Raceway - Gilby, Sydney and Myles on their way down.

After lunchtime we all packed up in the car again and headed on our way to Minnesota. We arrived at our friend's, the Pruden's house, in Maple Grove, MN just in time for dinner with them and Montgomery family. Gilby also worked with Chad Pruden and Suzanne and Jeff Montgomery at Okoboji. We saw the Prudens two summers ago, but hadn't seen the Montgomerys in several years. It was really great to catch up with everyone!


 Suzanne, Jeff, Gilby, Chad

Wednesday, July 2: We had spent the night at the Pruden's house, and woke up for a yummy breakfast and some time playing at a nearby park (before our tired kids had some major meltdowns and we had to be on our way!). We drove a couple hours south and stopped at the Kliment's farmhouse on our way to Fort Dodge. Susan and Darrin are another couple that Gilby worked with at camp and got very close to. Sus and Darrin have an amazing family, and I am very thankful to couples like them and the Montgomerys for the role models they have been to Gilby (and now me) in marriage and parenting. His Okoboji family helped contribute to the strong foundation he had when we first met that is now part of what our family is built on.

The Kliment's live on a beautiful farm in Northwood, IA and it was fun to expose our kids to all their property has to offer in one short afternoon. They have buffalo, chickens, kittens, horses, and dogs, plus lots of fun swings, a tree house, a big trampoline, and plenty of room to run. The kids could have spent more than a few hours having fun. 

 Sus, Josiah, Gilby, Caleb, Darrin, Samuel

 His Iowa roots.



 The kids LOVED these tire swings.


Wednesday evening we arrived at Uncle Joe's house in Fort Dodge in time for dinner and some playtime with the cousins before heading to bed.

Thursday, July 3 - Sunday, July 6: We spent the next few days in Fort Dodge visiting Gilby's family. Because Grandma and Grandpa Gilbert and Uncle Shawn were out to see us just two weeks before, the kids were able to pick up right where they left off playing and interacting with them, which led to some good, quality time together. To celebrate the 4th, we went to a small neighboring town for a parade, carnival and BBQ. The kids had fun gathering candy at the parade, and jumping in the bouncy house at the carnival before we met up with Gilby's aunt, uncle, and cousins for a BBQ. While in Fort Dodge, also visited Grandma and Grandpa Steck, played at the park, went swimming at the rec center, and spent lots of time playing with the cousins. 








Great Grandma and Grandpa Steck

Sydney, Grandma, Ryker, Kallista, Grandpa, Joely, Myles



We left for home early Sunday morning, and although we didn't necessarily come back rested, our hearts were full and many memories were made.