Sibling Moment

When I take a step back from the chaos and sheer noise level that three kids can bring, I can focus on the many sweet sibling moments that occur everyday. I know I've said it before, but I am so thankful these three have each other, and that they have built such a strong foundation to their relationships. Each kiddo is great with the others, but Sydney especially is amazing with both of her brothers. She has a gentle, compassionate heart that comes out in her interactions with them.

On this particular morning, Myles had a homework sheet to do, but didn't want to sit with me to work on it. Sydney was right there and happy to work through it with him, which they did with little guidance needed from me.

Sydney has been ahead of Myles in almost all areas of development for awhile now, but she is just starting to realize it. One day, she and Ryker were discussing who knows the most in our house. I can't remember how it came about, but it was sweet and not in a competitive way. She said, "Dad and Mom know the most, then me, then Myles," at which point her voice trailed off a bit and she turned to me and asked, "Is it okay if I know more than Myles?" I told her of course it's okay as long as she always treats him with respect. She was content with my answer and they went on with their conversation.

I don't know what Sydney thinks about Myles having Down syndrome, but it's not important, because what I do know is that she is fiercely protective of her brother, guides him along in his learning, and celebrates his successes. I am so proud of the young girl she is growing into.